"I'm a big girl now, see my big girl shoes."

Learning to be a proactive self-starter. 

After many committal issues and failed attempts to actually apply for big girl jobs... I've decided it's time to stop. 

Who knows, I'm probably not meant for the 9-5 but I'm more than what I'm doing now. I'm always scared and I'm always failing. Why not fail at something that could lead me in the right direction. 

My friend and soon-to-be roommate and I have discussed this multiple times. "Sam, what do you even want to do."

I sit there and pause. 

"Well, that's a great question, Mallory. One that I don't know how to answer." 

My smartypants remarks about "something creative with a purpose" or "embracing the mystery of life," seem to be taking it's toll. 

Yes, I want to have the "Semper Reformanda" mindset but is that mentality for my life right now being open to God or is it just because I'm afraid and it sets me up to always have the right answer. Kind of confusing but it makes sense in my head. 

"Semper Reformanda" is a phrase I learned in an awful "Christian Heritage" Course that I almost walked out of every time I sat down. Another story for another time but in looser terms it means, "always changing" or "always reforming." 

It dawned on me that I'm on the road to 24, young still but by then I will be graduated for 3 years. And what have I been doing?

I've had a lot of fun. 

But I've accumulated a lot of baggage.

I've been so blessed by provision but as an adult, I guess that's what most would call me, I've been rather selfish and scraping to get by. 

Since I've been back, I've managed to increase my living expenses. 

Community living has taken it's toll and turned me into an introverted craver. I get my own room now all inclusive with a bigger bed.

I get a new car, all inclusive with a bigger engine that likes to guzzle gas. 

And my very own boyfriend that takes a lot of money too. 

Rereading this phrase makes it sounds like I pay him. I don't pay him. He just lives 10,000 miles away. 

Go big or go home, eh ?

Bring it on. 

It's time to be proactive and create. 

sam may create is now open for business, folks. 

stay tuned. 

//edit//God bless my momma, leave it at that. That's all you need to know.

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